Wedding Dress Rental: One Special Day Needn’t Stuff Your Closet Forever

What’s white, covered with lace, used once and has an average cost of $1211? If your answer was the American wedding dress, you’d be correct. While we have nothing against the institution of marriage, the marital-industrial complex has become so powerful, so inflated, that many couples have become convinced they need to spend an average of $28K on their weddings according to a 2012 survey by The Knot and The Wedding Channel. While some expenses, like the $12K for venue, might be tough to save on, the wedding dress–a bulky, single-purpose, single-use, non-transferable hunk of lace, silk and taffeta–is a perfect place for cost-cutting.

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The Japanese–as they are wont to do–have a solution: rent your wedding dress. According to Rocket News 24 of Japan, the practice has become quite popular. The cost of the dress is actually worked into the overall cost of the wedding venue, many of which keep a bank of dresses at their disposal. The dresses are not necessarily cheap, costing as much as 150,000 yen ($1,450), though that’s for a high end dress that’d probably cost ten times that amount–a bargain if you’re into that kinda thing.

The practice, while not common, is done in the US. We visited Rent the Runway and they had a few options, all top designers and under $200 for a rental (though most looked like white evening dresses rather than traditional wedding dresses…not that that’s a bad thing). If you’re in LA, One Night Affair does high end wedding dress rentals. In fact, it seems like the best bet is to do a local, not national, search for rental places.

There is also Little Borrowed Dress, which specializes in bridesmaid dresses. They offer sets of dresses in a set number of styles and fabrics (12 and 18), in cuts that are “designed to fit and flatter all body types.”

Rather than cheaping out (not that cheaping out is a bad thing), renting a wedding dress, at least in Japan, is a reflection of care, as Rocket News states:

Some Japanese women we spoke to said that the very reason they want to rent their wedding dress is because of how important the ceremony is. Obviously, if we’re talking about the exact same item, it’s cheaper to rent than it is to buy. Just as there are companies that rent high-end sports cars to drivers who could never afford to buy one, choosing to rent a wedding dress gives the bride access to designers and quality far beyond what she could purchase at that price point.

Makes sense to us. And the ability to return the dress when you’re done–not carting it from house to house, storing it in a plastic bag, never to be worn again (a practice all too common in the American home)–is a big bonus.

Wedding image via Shutterstock

Prêt-à-Louer: How to Get Your Couture by the Hour

Do you have a big occasion you want to look awesome for? Do you have limited closet space and/or budget? Are you incapable of wearing tacky, store-bought clothes? If your answer is yes to one or more of those questions, Rent the Runway might be for you.

RTR offers women the chance to rent from a rotating stock of top designer collections and accessories for a fraction of sales price. For example, a $1600 Missoni dress rents for $175 and a Kate Spade clutch rents for $40. Other designers include Elie Tahari, Vera Wang and countless labels that are so prestigious we don’t recognize their names (there are also many lower price point options too).

Because you only have a RTR dress for 4-8 days, the site helps reduce clutter that would come from clothes that are often only used once.

As there are some inherent limitations to “trying” a dress online, RTR sends a backup size with every order. If those don’t work, they’ll overnight you something else. If you need some help choosing, you can chat with one of their stylists.

The site also allows past renters to review dresses, saying whether they ran small, big or true to size, as well as commenting on how they fit their bodies (they state their body size for comparison sake).  Some renters even post pics of the dress in action.

RTR might be doing the impossible: i.e. making $1000+ wear-once dresses compatible with an edited life. What do you think? Are those things mutually exclusive or can ultra-lux items work with an edited life?